Long Distance Relationship? ~~

On the way gi opis pagi nie...dgr Fly Fm pagi show..

Fixed it pagi nie pasal sorang minah nie nak clash dgn Bf dia sbb Long Distance Relationship (LDR)

Minah nie kat Selangor and Bf dia kat Kedah..*Masih dalam Mesia rupanyer*

Okay lah ko nak clash kan..but jgnlah buat kat dalam radio macam tue..depan public weyhh..its memalukan dat guy....entah lah budak2 zaman sekarang...

Then terus The DJ create topic pasal Long Distance Relationship: its work or not.......

Herm.....For a person yang mcm saya yang terlibat dalam LDR nie...tentulah saya akan ckp its work kan..dh lebih 2 tahun dah we all ber LDR...but Alhamdulillah...setakat nie maseh lagi bersama...

Actually benda nie depends pada individu lah..tak semua org sanggup nak ber LDR....but for me kalo setakat seorang kat selangor seorang kat kedah..its not a big deal lah....method of communication banyak...cakap jerk..internet..telefon...dari kedah nak ke selangor je pun ..bas banyak kalo nak jumpa pun kan....its about nak dgn tak nak je lah....and trust...

Agak nye kalo org2 mcm nie berLDR mcm saya nie mesti dh awal2 surrender kan.....Being in love with seafarer is not easy k...He's onboard6 to 9 months..balik cuti kdg2 tak sampai 2 bulan and kena onboard balik...Communications pun a bit hard compare dgn org yg berLDR but masih kat darat...

Tapi ramai jer yang manage to handle it and happy ever after..go and read my blog list kat sebelah tue...Ramai dh buktikan they involve in this LDR and berjaya jerk..ada yang dh anak 2 3 org lagi..Bahagia jer sampai skrg.....

I got few frens yang ber LDR in their relationship...Macam cik Basirah and tunang dia..dia kat Korea..tunang dia kat Malaysia....Ebil+Kobeq..sorang kat sini sorang kat Canada...bercinta dari umur 17 thn lagi...and ramai lagi..but still can pertahankan hubungan diorang...

For me the most important dalam LDR ialah trust.....mmg perlukan trust from both side..and rasa bersyukur dengan ape yang ada...we as human mmg selalu rs unsatisfied with what we have...tapi sampai bilakan?.....As long as both still trust each other and take care of both feeling..nothing cant work....

Me and my partner always thinking if i'm doing dis and that what my other half punya feeling...is it fair for him/her..put myself in his shoes....suka tak kalo dia buat benda yang sama kat kita...so that kat situ kita dah muhasabah diri and trying to save the relationship....

Another things is tolak ansur and understanding..yang nie penting sgt sbb bila distance separates its hard for both of us to settle things properly..especially bila timbul salah sangka and gaduh2 nie..sorang kat sana..sorang kat sini..so a bi difficult to handle if tak betul2 understanding..so kat sinilah tolak ansur mainkan peranan to smooth everything....

I'm not saying dats i'm againts those yang rasa LDR cant work...as i said beforelah..its depends on how that individual see things..if u can so go on....if not why waste your time kan...Just kat sini nak state yang mine and few people punya LDR yang boleh dikatakan agak tragis jugak nak survive kalo dipandang dr sudut negatif nye but still working compared to the situation yang berlaku dalam topic pagi show tadi je...

I know, saya bukan lah suitable sangat utk berbicara mengenai LDR nie..i'm just a beginner..lots of things yg tak face lagi..but at least i'm trying to give my point of view since i'm involved in dis situation kan...Sorrylah if ader yang rasa tak best dengan my opinion kan...

It just my 2cent opinion....chill =)

I quote dis from someone

♥ Distance never separates two hearts that really care, for our memories span the miles and in seconds we are there. But whenever I start feeling sad, because I miss you, I remind myself how lucky I am to have someone so special to miss ♥

Truekan?..

As long i'm having someone to love and to be loved..i dun care how far it is and how hard it is...Just believe and have faith in this relationship...Kalo niat dalam hati baik..InsyaAllah everything ALLAH permudahkan....

*Thanks dear bee..Loqman Hakim Abdul Razak...You are the best thing happen to me eventho we are always far from each other*